The process of change!!!!!

THE PROCESS OF CHANGE
By Beth Sturges
coachingwithbeth@gmail.com

Quote: “Small steps taken consistently over a long period of time produce results”

Change is a Step-by-Step Process

Established patterns of behavior do not change easily. When we come to believe that the majority of our behaviors are rooted in our unconscious mind and that we are mostly operating from early childhood programming, our resistance to change becomes more understandable. One thing we know about change is determined by one of the basic laws of nature: there can never be a void. It takes a certain amount of courage and support to step into the unknown. If we are going to give up a certain habit or behavior, we will have to have something else to take its place. Lasting change is a process of replacing one behavior for another, gradually and consistently over a period of time.

Scientific Research

The motivation to change has been at the center of hundreds of theories in the field of psychology. Researchers for the National Institute of Health set out to study the process of change by looking at the behaviors of people who changed some specific behavior without any specific type of intervention. These “self-changers” were not always successful in maintaining the changed behavior as there is still a need for guidance and support, but they seemed to tap into the inner strength and confidence necessary to develop the motivation for change. In studying these self-changers, the researchers were able to discover a natural process that has helped take some of the mystery out of the change process.

Here is what the research has taught us. Change takes place in predictable stages. There are six stages one must go through in order to make lasting change. Knowing which stage you are in regarding the issue you are working on can help you accept the amount of time it takes, which can help motivate you to keep going and, can also help you choose which process of intervention is best for you at the time. Link to the Six Stages of Change Article -----

SIX STAGES OF CHANGE

All stages are necessary, however, this is not a linear progression. The self-changers had to renew their efforts several times by developing more effective relapse plans. Each time we recycle through the process, there is a new awareness of what could have been done differently. People who take action and fail are more likely to succeed than those who don’t take any action at all. Courage is not just starting, but trying again another day.
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Here’s a recap of the research and the six stages of change:

Pre-contemplation – In denial of the problem - resisting change and feeling hopeless that can ever change. We are all unaware of the strategies we use that cause problems in our lives. They are just strategies and behaviors put in place early on to help us cope with the problems of life. Because avoiding pain is more motivational than seeking pleasure; often it takes the painful consequences of our self-defeating behaviors to help us come out of denial. Desiring to change some behaviors that create undesirable consequences becomes the motivational force. Interventions: Noticing the weaknesses we see in others as a clue to what we hesitate to see in ourselves. Letting other people show us our weak spots without our getting defensive. (It is helpful to look at how the structures in place within our society support the problem.) (Example: (TV watching = less exercise)

Contemplation – Change is on the horizon. We recognize that we have a problem, but are stuck and wonder about possible solutions. Thinking: I tried to do it before and it didn’t work, maybe I should find a different way this time. I do not really know what or when, but maybe I should start thinking about this. Interventions: Gathering information about the issue, reading books and articles, listening to others, considering various options, dealing with our fear of failure, feeling the pain of not changing. (It is common to get stuck in this stage.)

Preparation – Getting ready and planning to take action at some definite point in the future. There are some practical things we are going to have to do to prepare. Looking at the consequences of giving up a habit or behavior and developing alternatives. This transition in thinking becomes the foundation for action. Intervention: Writing out a plan and making a personal commitment and perhaps sharing it with someone. (This key stage is often missed)

Action –Time to move. This is the busiest time of the six stages when the behavior and surroundings are in the process of being modified. Going too fast sets us up for failure. Every time we commit to a new behavior and fail, a negative message is internalized which undermines our self-confidence and thus, our motivation to continue. Intervention: Start with small steps (what you know you can do) (keep crunching it down until you can stay with it) Stay focused for 21 days until the new habit is formed. (Most programs start out with this stage, which invites failure and discouragement.

Maintenance – Staying there. Accountability is in place for six months minimum; and in some cases having to do with certain addictions, accountability may be necessary for life. Intervention: Develop a circle of support for your new behavior that is rewarding as in new friends, a support group, a coach or counselor, a new activity, a reward for success, etc. (We may start and fail several times with a certain behavir before finding effective ways to maintain the new behavior until it becomes a way of life.)

Termination – Exiting the cycle of change. The problem is completely solved. The old behavior is no longer a temptation or a struggle. The new behavior is in place and is automatic. Now is the time to add a new step to your overall goal. Intervention: Create a vision in advance of what termination of your overall goal would look like. Read it out- loud to yourself every day to help keep you focused throughout the process. (Success leads to greater success).

(Quote: “Take the long view, one day at a time”)

(You can read more about this study in the book: Changing For Good, by James Prochaska,PH.D, John Norcross, PH.D, Carlo DiclementePH.D)

EATTT--Monday Jan. 19, 2009

Hello OHChallenge Participants...

I hope all you had a great weekend and I hope you are ready to start eating today. Today, you should be starting your full day of eating...hooray.  For those of you that have some Ultraclear left over, go ahead and have 1-2 shakes between breakfast and lunch and between lunch and dinner. I you have already finished the UltraClear, it is best to have some small snack during those times. Remember, you have just spent 7 days cleaning out you system, so today start by putting healthy foods back into your body. Remember, this is a journey and you are on a path of greatness now.

Also, tomorrow, you will be starting the burst training. Hopefully, you have already watched the video (without laughing) and are ready to start.  Please, plan ahead.  When are you going to do the burst Training?  Where are you going to do the burst training?  What do you need to prepare ahead of time for the Burst Training?  Follow the video exactly.  You can do upper body one day and lower body the next day. If  you are feeling ambitious, you can go through both upper and lower body.  Remember, use common sense when exercising. If you have an injury, avoid exercises that aggravate the injured area.  Have fun with the Burst Training, it is challenging yet FUN.

See Everyone on Thursday at 7:00pm at Front Range College!!!

Dr. Ferrell

Day 2-OHChallenge

Day 2

As I am sure you are already aware, your mind can play very funny tricks on you (especially when it comes to food).  I personally, seem to have the hardest time facing the 2nd day of the detox.  Remember, staying hydrated is very important in this entire process, especially when detoxing the body??

I question arose from 1 of the participants today that I would like to address...."Is it OK to take over the counter meds during the program??"  The answer is NO.  Over the counter meds, prescription meds, artificial sweetners, caffeine, etc..are all toxic to the body and will destroy your kidneys and liver with time and continued use. Remember, we are cleaning out the very systems of the body that we poison on a daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly basis.  During time, we are eliminating toxins as much as possible.  PLEASE REMEMBER THIS.

Finally, we are coming up on the end of the week.  As you know, we are keeping track of your weight on a weekly basis to monitor you.  Please make sure you stop by the office by Thursday at 6:00pm to weigh in.  However, remember, this challenge is not about weight. This challenge is about you cleaning your body, replenishing it with better choices of food, and MAINTAINING IT.  For some of you, I know weight is a huge factor and it very well should be.  But remember, this is a process, stick to the plan and you can only succeed!!!!!!

Have a Blessed Day

Dr. Dustin

2009 Optimal Health Challenge Kick-Off!!!

Hello All Optimal Health Challenge Participants!!!

(NOTE: this blog and the blogs to follow for the next 5 weeks are intended for participants of the 2009 optimal health challenge participants. If you are a participant, you are encouraged to read this blog on a daily basis and make any comments (or ask questions) regarding anything we can help you with or anything you feel will benefit others. If you are not a participant and have a comment that would help our team, please feel free to comment also.)

First of All, thank you to everyone for being apart of this 5 week journey. We had a total of 48 people join this challenge and we are excited to guide you, to teach you, to inspire you, and ultimately to change you.

Today I want to address a few of the hot  topics (and questions) that we encountered today. First, start drinking more water right away. At least half of  your body weight in ounces.  some of you asked about water...I personally have Eldorado at home and use bottled water at work..i also use a water bottle and encourage you too....I have done a moderate amount of water research, but I know some of you feel very strong about certain waters...please let us know any info that might help.

Also, many of you asked about teas..non-caffeinated teas are acceptable (green tea, raspberry leaf teas, etc), however, crystal light or Lipton is not acceptable. Please comment if you have further questions or facts regarding this matter.

Second, many of you inquired about getting this program to other family members, and friends. Please speak with Dani or Kristi and we will gladly get them started ASAP.

Remember, we are starting on Monday.   If you have any questions or concerns, please feel to contact us at the appropriate emails.

Finally, your success depends on your level of commitment...  Commit today and reap the benefits for a lifetime.

Dr. D

PS PLEASE FEEL FREE to post other questions on this blog!!!